Dear James, I lost my Dad last year and I need to know that he is ok and if he's with loved ones that passed before him and also if he is aware of the recent trouble?

Tracie, Wirral

Dear Tracy, Life goes on, he knows this now, whatever happens after his passing and although he cannot be there in body he is in spirit. The trouble will end, and life will carry on again. Don't get involved in who's fault it is, was, or could have been. Troubles will come and go through your life, it's just the way you handle them that counts in the end. There have been good times. Build on them.