Dear James, I need to know if I will always feel so lonely. My best friend, mum and dad have all died in the last few years. I have been without a partner for the last three years, I moved back to Wallasey to be closer to my brothers and sister, but still feel so alone - is there a chance of meeting someone who will make me feel loved and needed?

Roberta, Wallasey, Merseyside

Dear Bobby, Put some of your ideas into practice stop procrastinating about what you could or would do with your life. Do it! It's time to move yourself and drag yourself out of this rut you have got yourself into. Stop worrying about money and everything else, it's time to move forward with your life and leave the past behind.