Hi James. Just wondering if you could help me. I've been to many psychics, looking for a message from my brother. He was 20 when he died and I was just eleven.

I have never spoken to anyone about it. Because I was only a child, I thought I couldn't grieve. I was sort of pushed out. I would love to know if he had any messages for any of the family or me. I am now 22 with a child of my own.

Nicky, Wirral

Hi Nicky,

I just have to say well done. I feel this may not be said to you enough. I also feel that there have been times when you have sensed your brother with you through the years. And had the feeling of tricks being played on you. You have also had some weird smells around you. Be assured you're not second best to anyone, not to him or grandparents that have passed over. He cannot wait for the other child to arrive. He will definitely have your brother's personality.